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The digital playground is no fringe worry. It is the battlefield of our young people’s social lives. Across Europe, anti-bullying organisations are sounding the alarm: the last two to three years have brought new tactics, younger victims and a heavy dose of platform-enabled aggression. On this first Thursday of November, the International Day Against Violence and Bullying in School, including Cyberbullying, it’s time to take stock.
Across Europe, cyberbullying has surged in both prevalence and complexity over the past three years. A 2024 study by the World Health Organization (WHO) found that one in six adolescents (15%) in Europe has experienced cyberbullying, with the rates closely aligned between boys (15%) and girls (16%). This represents an increase from 2018, from 12% to 15% for boys and 13% to 16% for girls.
Meanwhile, helplines in the EU Insafe network covering 28 countries report cyberbullying is consistently a top reason for contact. In the first quarter of 2024, cyberbullying accounted for 13% of all contacts, with most problems occurring on social platforms.
The consequences of this new societal scourge are serious and well documented, manifesting in rising rates of mental health problems amongst children, incidents of self-harm, suicide and physical violence.
Influencers can be powerful voices for change. Campaigns like Cybersmile’s Beyond Profiles and research from Tilburg University show that creators who share personal stories can reduce stigma, promote empathy, and reach young audiences where official campaigns often cannot.
In just a few years, the phenomenon of online harm to children and young people has expanded from peer-to-peer cyberbullying, to the broader and darker concept of cyberviolence.
It’s not just a matter of semantics. The distinction between cyberbullying and cyberviolence reflects how digital harm has evolved beyond insults and exclusion.
Today, it includes exposure to violent or sexual content, online humiliation, and manipulative trends. Supplementing the place of direct aggressors is the social media feed itself, serving up a stream of often inappropriate content that our young people are not equipped to deal with.
In France, Nora Fraisse, founder of anti-bullying association Marion la Main Tendue, says the distinction is vital to understanding the new reality children face online.
“Cyberviolence means exposure to violent, inappropriate or shocking content, something that can harm even when no one is directly targeting you,” she explains. “Cyberbullying is targeted aggression. You know who is behind it, even if they hide behind a pseudonym.”
Fraisse points to what she calls a “massive lowering of the age of exposure,” with children as young as ten regularly encountering adult content and aggressive online behaviours, often without understanding what they’re seeing.
“Children are consuming content made by adults, for adults. TikTok has become their daily routine. The problem isn’t the tool itself, it’s the nature of what they see.”
Across the border, the Spanish Association for the Prevention of School Bullying (AEPAE) has observed first-hand the escalation in cyberbullying amongst children. What once took place on public social networks has migrated to private group chats and messaging apps like Whatsapp, Discord and Telegram: all new environments with little adult oversight.
“We’ve moved from isolated insults to coordinated exclusion,” comments Dr Ana Mª Giménez Gualdo from the University of Malaga. “We now see image manipulation, rumours, and what we call cybergossip, where false stories spread faster than truth ever can.”
The UK’s Cybersmile Foundation, led by Scott Freeman, has also seen this shift, not just in the language young people use, but in the form online cruelty takes.
“What we see now is a rise in passive and indirect bullying: exclusion, ghosting, body-shaming through filters and comments,” Freeman says. “The psychological impact is no less serious than overt harassment.”
For Ivano Zoppi, Secretary General Italy’s Fondazione Carolina, this evolution signals something deeper: the gamification of cruelty.
“Online aggression has become entertainment, part of the dopamine loop of likes and views. The boundaries between play and violence are blurring.”
Together, these experts describe a digital landscape where harm is not always visible, and rarely simple. It’s no longer just about what children do to each other online, it’s about what the internet does to them.
When classrooms closed and playgrounds went quiet, TikTok became the centre of youth culture. What began as a creative outlet for dance and humour turned into the default social hub for millions of young people across Europe, a place where identity, belonging, and validation now unfold in real time.
“Young people are now on TikTok much earlier than before,” comments Marion La Main Tendue’s Nora Fraisse. “It’s become part of their routine. They are no longer creators, like they used to be on YouTube; they are consumers of content, and that content can be extremely violent.”
She warns that much of what circulates on TikTok “is produced by adults for adults, but is consumed mainly by children,” making vigilance and media education essential.
In the UK, 58% of young people aged 16–24 report experiencing online abuse, and 87% say social media negatively impacts their mental health, according to Cybersmile’s latest Digital Wellbeing Report.
“Platforms that emphasise visual content and peer validation, such as Instagram and TikTok, are particularly associated with body image issues and mental health challenges,” says The Cybersmile Foundation’s Freeman.
Across the continent, similar concerns echo, in Italy, Ivano Zoppi of Fondazione Carolina, notes: “TikTok, for the speed and virality of its content, worries us most, especially because harmful challenges and doxing are growing.”
Research supports their concerns. A 2023 systematic review of 20 studies on TikTok’s impact on adolescent mental health found that heavy TikTok use correlates with higher anxiety and depression symptoms among adolescents.
In the UK, Ofcom’s Children and Parents: Media Use and Attitudes report (2024) highlights that a quarter of UK children aged 5–7 owned a smartphone, and many others use social media despite age restrictions. The WHO also reports that problematic social-media use among European adolescents rose from 7% in 2018 to 11% in 2022, a jump linked to the post-pandemic surge in screen time.
For educators, this cultural shift poses daily challenges. “Teachers are unarmed,” Fraisse explains. “They have no idea what happens on these platforms. I tell them: open accounts, see what your students watch, understand their new language, you’ll also discover the dangerous challenges circulating online.”
TikTok itself has faced mounting scrutiny from regulators. The EU launched formal proceedings against TikTok under the Digital Services Act (DSA), over concerns including protection of minors, advertising transparency, data access, algorithmic risk.
The European Parliament has also called for child protection audits of social platforms’ design choices, a recognition of the concern that the issue lies less in single videos than in algorithms optimised for attention.
“Encouraging healthy online habits means promoting digital literacy and self-awareness, not fear or guilt. We need to empower young people with the tools to navigate these spaces safely,” comments The Cybersmile Foundation’s Scott Freeman.
Across Europe, governments are scrambling to keep pace with an issue that mutates faster than legislation. Every country now acknowledges that cyberbullying and online violence are public-health challenges, yet the responses remain patchy, fragmented, and too often reactive.
In recent years, France and Germany have introduced laws criminalising school and online bullying. Spain has expanded its Plan de Convivencia Escolar to include cyberbullying prevention, and Italy is preparing a national digital-literacy curriculum for primary schools starting in 2025.
But while these initiatives mark progress, experts agree that legislation alone won’t stop the harm. Ivano Zoppi cautions that policymakers often focus on punishment rather than prevention.
“We can’t legislate our way out of this problem. The challenge is cultural, not only legal. If we don’t change how children, parents, and schools live the digital world, the laws will always arrive too late,” he says.
For Nora Fraisse, the pattern is the same in France: “Each new tragedy brings a wave of emotion and a new law. But we must move from crisis management to continuous education. Prevention has to become part of daily life, not just a campaign once a year.”
And despite the introduction of robust anti-bullying protocols for Spanish schools, many still activate them only after the damage is done, comments the AEPAE’s Ana Mª Giménez Gualdo.
“The rules exist on paper, but intervention often comes too late. By the time teachers react, the victim has already been isolated, anxious, or even suicidal,” she says
Another key issue is the lack of European collaboration on addressing the problem, notes Freeman. He says the EU’s Digital Services Act is a step in the right direction in that it forces platforms to audit their algorithms and assess risks to minors, but warns that transparency reports are “only as useful as the actions that follow”.
“We still treat cyberbullying as a local or national problem, but the platforms are global. We need shared data, consistent victim support, and a unified message that crosses borders,” he says.
If there’s one thing all experts agree on, it’s that protecting children online starts long before a crisis, and rarely through restriction alone. The first real line of defence isn’t technology; it’s the human relationships surrounding the screen.
Across Europe, parents and educators are struggling to find the right balance between vigilance and trust. They want to guide, but not spy; to protect, but not isolate.
Anti-cyberbullying and cyberviolence experts agree. The issue must be navigated and resolved in partnership with children, not against them. Guidance must be relational, not repressive. Parents and educators can’t outsource their role to filters, apps, or laws; they must reclaim it through presence, empathy, and consistency.
“Families often swing between total prohibition and total permissiveness. We need a middle way: education for conscious use. That means adults entering the digital world with their children, not standing outside of it,” says Fondazione Carolina’s Ivano Zoppi.
Experts say parents and educators can no longer stand on the sidelines of digital culture, but join their children and students in the landscape where they are spending their time.
“Understanding what happens there is essential to understanding your students. Teachers should be digitally present, not to spy, but to connect,” comments the AEPAE’s Ana Mª Giménez Gualdo.
With research by the Slovenian Safer Internet Centre finding that 59% of secondary-school students compare themselves to influencers, it is crucial for influencers and content creators to join the fight against the harm of cyberbullying and cyberviolence.
“Online harm today is as much about pressure and comparison as it is about direct abuse,” comments Cybersmile’s Scott Freeman.
In that sense, influencers can play a critical role in bridging generations online, translating complex issues like cyberbullying, body image, or mental health into relatable language, and encouraging followers to seek help or speak up. By doing so, they become not just creators, but community builders in the digital space.
Beyond simply monitoring behaviour, today’s digital-safety landscape is recognising the influential role that social-media creators can play in shaping positive norms online.
Academic research from Tilburg University in the Netherlands demonstrates that campaigns which partner with creators and script authentic peer-led storylines resonate more effectively with children aged 10-18, helping them internalise anti-bullying messages in their everyday digital routines.
The Cybersmile Foundation’s campaign “Beyond Profiles” enlisted popular influencers to share personal stories of cyber-bullying and mental-health struggle, reaching over a million video views, and underscoring one key message: “behind every profile is a person with feelings”.
“Young people need digital mentors, not digital police. When adults show curiosity instead of fear, kids are far more likely to come forward when something goes wrong,” comments Scott Freeman.
Together, these efforts illustrate a useful shift: rather than viewing influencers as part of the cyber-bullying problem, they are being leveraged as trusted voices in the conversation, helping bridge the gap between official education frameworks and the lived online experience of younger users.
On this UNESCO International Day against Violence and Bullying at School, including Cyberbullying, Europe faces a defining challenge: not simply to protect children from technology, but to prepare them for it.
1. Explore together.
Create social-media accounts alongside children; ask them to show you the creators, trends and challenges they follow. Curiosity builds trust.
2. Talk early and often.
Don’t wait for problems to arise. Start conversations about online respect, digital empathy, and privacy before adolescence.
3. Model the behaviour you expect.
Children learn by imitation. Show what responsible posting, time limits, and emotional regulation look like.
4. Stay informed and visible.
Educators should keep up with the platforms and slang their students use. Being digitally literate helps identify risks before they escalate.
5. Replace punishment with dialogue.
If something goes wrong, focus on understanding and problem-solving rather than confiscation. Repairing trust is more powerful than fear.
On this UNESCO International Day against Violence and Bullying at School, including Cyberbullying, Europe faces a defining challenge: not simply to protect children from technology, but to prepare them for it.
If you or someone you know is experiencing online abuse or cyberbullying, support is available:
France — 3018 (e-Enfance / Association Marion la Main Tendue)
National helpline for digital violence and cyberbullying, free and confidential, 7 days a week.
https://3018.fr
· France — 116 006 (France Victimes)
General victim-support number, including bullying and online abuse.
https://www.france-victimes.fr
· United Kingdom — Childline (0800 1111)
24/7 helpline for children and young people dealing with bullying, cyberbullying, and online harm.
https://www.childline.org.uk
· Germany — Nummer gegen Kummer (116 111)
National child helpline providing counselling on bullying, cyberbullying, and family problems.
https://www.nummergegenkummer.de
· Germany — Internet-Beschwerdestelle
Hotline for reporting illegal or harmful online content, including hate speech and harassment.
https://www.internet-beschwerdestelle.de
· Spain — Fundación ANAR (900 202 010)
Free and confidential helpline for children and adolescents experiencing bullying or online abuse.
https://www.anar.org
· Spain — INCIBE Cyber Helpline (017)
National cyber-security line offering assistance for online threats, identity theft, and cyberbullying.
https://www.incibe.es/linea-de-ayuda-en-ciberseguridad
· Italy — Telefono Azzurro (1 96 96)
National child-protection helpline supporting victims of bullying, sexting, and cyberviolence.
https://www.azzurro.it
· Netherlands — De Kindertelefoon (0800 0432)
Helpline for children and teens offering advice on bullying and online safety, available by phone and chat.
https://www.kindertelefoon.nl
· Belgium — Child Focus / Stop Cyber Hate (116 000)
National helpline for missing and exploited children, including online grooming and bullying cases.
https://www.childfocus.be
· Sweden — BRIS (020 50 50 50)
Children’s Rights in Society helpline providing counselling via phone, chat, or email on bullying and mental health.
https://www.bris.se
· Denmark — BørneTelefonen (116 111)
Free and confidential helpline for children and teens on all issues including cyberbullying.
https://bornetelefonen.dk
· Norway — Kors på Halsen (800 333 21)
Anonymous helpline for young people facing bullying, digital harassment, or loneliness.
https://www.korspahalsen.no
· Finland — MLL Lasten ja Nuorten Puhelin (116 111)
The Mannerheim League’s national child helpline offering support for online risks and cyberbullying.
https://www.mll.fi
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